Lkh[kuk er NksfM;as
ftaaaa+aanxh
Hkj gj balku dqN u dqN lh[krk jgrk gSA vxj
balku
gj xyrh] gj balku ls lh[k ysrk jgs]rks thou ds cgqr lkjs nq[k] nnZ] fujk”kk
vkSj larki dks feVk ldrk gSA lh[krs jgus dk eryc gS] yxkrkj fodk”k djrs jguk A vxj vki
FkksMk lk /;ku nks] rks nqljks ls cgqr dqN lh[k ldrs gksA
lh[kuk D;ksa
t:jh gS %& vKkurk fdlh Hkh {ksrz es gks og
uqdlku nsg gh gksrh gSA blfy, ckjhfd;ksa dks le>us dk iz;kl djsaA ;s ges”kk
/;ku j[kuk dh ;ksX;rk o izfrHkk ls thr o lEeku gkfly gksrh gSA lh[kuk NksM+us ls vkidh ;ksX;rk Bgj tk,sxhA tks pht ge ugh tkurs mls ge nqljks ls lh[k
ldrs gSA blfy, vkt ls lh[kuk “kq: dj fnft,sA ge nqljks dk vuq“kj.k djds
gh] ogk igaqp ldrs gS] tgk nqljs igqaps
gSA tc ge lh[krs gS] rks gekjh ;ksX;rk o {kerk nksuks gh c<+rh tkrh gSA
Lkh[kus
ds fy, ekabM+ vksiu j[kas] lkspsa o loky djsa %& ekabM
vksiu j[kdj gh vki dqN lh[k ldrs gks] lh[kk ldrs gks A loky lkspus
o djus ls gh gekjk ckSf)d fodkl gksxkA ykbQ es
dqN djuk pkgrs gks] rks vki ftruk lksprs gks] mlls
nqxuk djksA vf/kdrj yksxks dh izkCye gh
;s gksrh gS fd lksprs T;knk gS] djrs de gSA tgka vki igaqpuk pkgrs gks ogka
flQZ lksp dj ;k lh[kdj ugh igaqp ldrs] ogka ij vki csgrj rjhds ls djds gh igqap
ldrs gksA
lh[kus ds
fy, le; invest djsa %& vxj vki ykbQ
es dqN lh[kuk pkgrs gks] rks le; dk invesatment rks djuk gh iM+sxkA vkSj le; dk vHkko fdlh ds
ikl Hkh ugh gSA flQZ self motivation dk
vHkko jgrk gSA vxj balku [kqn motivated jgs]
rks lh[kus ds vusd jkLrs [kkst ldrk gSA vkSj lh[kus ds fy, le; Hkh fudky ysxkA lh[kus ds fy, [kqn dks eksVhosV
djsa] lHkh }kj [kqy tk,saxsA le; vius vki feyus yxsxkA gj jkst dqN u;k lh[kus
dh dksf”k”k djasA vxj vki csgrj djuk pkgrs gks] rks vkidks viuh
;ksX;rk c<kuh iMs+xhA
̕
̕tks
Hkh vki ftanxh es lh[kuk pkgrs gks] igys tks t:jh gS] mlls “kq: djsa] vkSj fQj tks eqefdu gS] mls djas] vkSj fQj vki ukeqefdu dke
Hkh djus yxsx̕s ̕
&le>nkj balku
vyx&2
fQYM+ ds yksxks ls fefy,sa %&vyx&2 fQYM ds yksxks ls feyks]
muls loky djks] A v/ksjs dh f”kdk;r djus ls vPNk gS fd nhid tykvksA ftl pht dk
vkidks irk ugh mldk irk yxkvksA gj fQYM ds yksxks ls vkidks dqN u
dqN lh[kus ds fy, t:j feysxkA vkSj tc vki feyksxs o loky djksxs rHkh rks vkxs
c<ksxsA tSls fd dgrs gaS f”k{kk gh lQyrk dh dqath gSA ftl
rjg Ldqy dh lh[kh gqbZ ckrs egRoiq.kZ gSa] blh rjg O;ogkfjd Kku vkSj /ku
lacf/kr tkudkjh Hkh t:jh gSaA vxj vkidks gj fQYM dh tkudkjh ugh
gS] rks ekSds vk,sxs vkSj pys tk,sxs] vkidks irk gh ugh py ik,sxkA blfy, gj
fQYM dh tkudkjh vkSj rRdky fu.kZ; ysus dh {kerk gksuh vfuokZ; gSA
̕ ̕Kkuh o
Js"B vkpj.k okys balku ls dqN Hkh iqNus es dHkh ladksp ugh djuk pkfg,̕
̕
dbZ ckj
yksx u tkurs gq, Hkh iqNus es ladksp djrs gSA tks pht vki ugh tkurs ;k ftl dk;Z
ds ckjs es vki ugh tkurs mls iqNus esa ldksp dSlk \ fdlh dke dk uk vkuk xyr ugh
gS] mls uk lh[kuk xyr gS A tks dke vkidks ugh vkrk mls NksVs
cPps ls Hkh lh[kus es ladksp ugh djuk pkfg,A vkSj tks ckr vkidks cMks dh Hkh
xyr yxs] mldh mis{kk djuh pkfg, gka ,d ckr dk /;ku j[ks] mis{kk djs vieku ugh A Tkc vkids
vanj dqN lh[kus dh bPNk gksrh gS] rHkh vki dqN lh[k ldrs gksA fdlh Hkh dke dks
vki ftruk lh[krs tkrs gS] mruh gh ckjhdh;kas dk vkidks irk pyrk tkrk gSA vkSj
ftruk vki Kku gkfly djrs tkrs gaS] mruk gh vkidks vKkurk dk irk pyrk tkrk gSA
̕
̕ tks ge tkurs gS oks ,d cqn gS] tks ugh
tkurs og ,d lkxj gS̕ ̕
&bZlkd
U;wV
vki ftruk
T;knk lh[kksxs mruh gh vkidh ;ksX;rk c<+ tk,sxh %&tc vki
fdlh Hkh pht dks cgqr vPNh rjg lh[k ysrs gaS] rks mls csgrj rjhds ls djrs gSaA vkSj vki
ftruk T;knk vPNh rjg ls dke dks lh[k ysrs gS] mruh gh ml dk;Z es vki dks n{krk
izkIr gks tkrh gS] mruh gh vkidh oSY;q c< tkrh gSA cgqr
T;knk O;Lr jgus dh ctk,] vPNs ifj.kke dh dksf”k”k djasA thou es Js’V djus dh lkspasA blls vki csgrj balku
cu ldrs gaSA nqljs vkidks dqN Hkh dgas bldh izokg uk djasA vxj
gka vkidh varjkRek gh vkidks dpksVs rks lksp yks dh vkids vPNs fnu vk x,s gS]
vc vki viuk dherh le; uk xok,asA viuh detksfj;ksa dks igapkus o mUgsa nqj djsaA
la”kDr
balku mez Hkj ubZ ubZ ckrsa lh[kus es yxk jgrk gS %& viuh {kerkvks dks lhfer u ekus A cfYd
fofHkUu fo’k;ks dks le>us dh dksf”k”k djasA D;k dksbZ vkSj rjhdk gS] bls lHkkyus
dk \ tc dksbZ rjhdk fey tk,s] rks ml ij vey djsaA ftruk vH;kl djksxs mrus gh
u;s rjhds vkdj vkidks mHkkjsxsA vki ,d ckj vius fopkjks dks Li’V
djys]A rks vkxs Hkh vius fopkjks dk o vius vuqHko dk bLrseky dj ldrs
gksA
lQy
yksxks dks /;ku ls ns[ksa] muds ckjs es i<+dj lh[kdj thou es mrkjsa %& cksyuk]
i<uk] lquuk ;s lh[kuk ugh gSA ;s lc lh[kus ds jkLrs gaSA lh[kuk rks flQZ og
gS tks vkius thou es mrkjk gSA tc rd vki lh[k dj i<dj thou
es ugh mrkjr]s rc rd dksbZ Qk;nk ugh gSA lh[kks tks lQy yksxks us lh[kk] mls
thou es mrkjks ftlls oks lQy gks ldsA fdlh Hkh dk;Z es lQyrk izkIr djus ds fy,
;s t:jh gS fd vki fdruk lh[k ldrs gks] ;k viuh dk;Z {kerk fdruh c<k ldrs
gksA vkSj ;s lc vkidh lksp ij fuHkZj gS] vxj lksprs gks fd vki lh[k ldrs gks
rks lh[k yksxs] vkSj vxj vki lksprs gks fd vki ugh lh[k ldrs rks vki ugh lh[k
ikvksxsA
vki
vius vkbZMy ls dqN Hkh lh[ks ijarq mudks Qksyks u djsa %& tc rd vki fdlh dks jksy
ekWMy ugh cukrs] rc rd vki mlls dqN lh[k Hkh ugh ldrsA ysfdu vkidh fcyikoj bruh
LV`ksx gksuh pkfg,] fd vki muls vkxs fudy ldksA muls T;knk lDlsl Qqy gks ldks] gj
ifjfLFkfr ls vki [kqn gh lh[k ldrs gks] vkSj dksbZ vkidks dqN ugh lh[kk ldrkA
vki vius vuqHko ls lQyrk izkIr dj ldrs gksA tc rd vki lh[krs jgus ds fy, rS;kj
ugh rc rd vki ÅWph lQyrk gkfly ugh dj ldrsA ;s t:jh ugh gS fd vki tc
dksbZ dke “kq: djrs gks] rks vkids ikl es ml dke dh fdruh tkudkjh gS \ ;s t:jh
gS fd vki fdruk lh[krs gks fdruk cnyrs gks A
Lo;a dk
v/;u djsa] rHkh vkxs c< ldrs gkas %& vkidh fdLer
es dqN Hkh fy[kk gks] mlls mHkjus ds fy, vkidks vius varZeu es >kduk iMs+xkA
rHkh vki mlls mHkj ldrs gksA vxj vki dqN djuk pkgrs gks] vkSj
vkies mldh ;ksX;rk ugh gSA rks vki ;ksX;rk gkfly djksxs vkSj vxj vki ;s ugh dj
jgs gks] rks vkids vanj bPNk “kfDr dh deh gSA vxj vkids vanj fdlh ;ksX;rk dh
deh gS] rks vki mu fo’k;ks ij nqxuk ;k rhu xq.kk oDr nsdj lh[ksaA vki dksbZ
vkSj jkLrk <qM+ ldrs gksA vki ftruk iz;kl djksx]s blls vkids fnekx dh rks
dljr gksxh gh vkSj vPNk dks”ky vk,sxkA gj lh[k ftanxh es dHkh u dHkh dke vkrh
gSA vius vanj >kadks viuh [qkch igapkuks vkSj viuh ;ksX;rk
dks ekiks vkSj fQj BaMs fnekx ls lksp dj vius vkidks cnyks vkSj lh[kks A
Lknk ,d
dne vkxs dh lksps %&vxj vki ekurs gks fd vkidk /kjrh
ij vkuk] ,d eqdke gkfly djuk gSA rks vkidh leL;kvksa vkSj ck/kkvkas dks u;s
ek;us feysxsA vkSj vkids vuqHko vkids varZeu dks iks’k.k iznku djsxsaA ;ksX;rk
ds cht rks vkids tUe ls gh vkids lkFk bl nqfu;k es vkrs gSA bUgs fodflr djas
vkSj lQy balku cus A vki viuh fodflr djus dh {kerk ij gh viuk HkkX; cny ldrs
gksA ikWftVo lksp ls gh vki ;s lh[k ikvksxs] fd vkidh ftanxh es
pkgs dqN Hkh gks jgk gks vki ldkjkRed jgssxasA vkSj fLFkfr dks viuh lqfo/kk
iwoZd <ky ik,sxsaA vkSj leL;k ;k ijs”kkuh tSlh dksbZ pht ugh gSA vly es vki
thou ds mrkj Pk<ko ls gh xqtj dj dqN lh[k ikrs gksA gj dfBu fLFkfr dk lkeuk
djds balku dqN lcd t:j lh[krk gSA vxj
vki volj dk ykHk mBkrs gk]s rks vki le>nkj balku gksA vxj vki dqN lh[kuk
pkgrs gks] rks mldh ftEesnkjh [kqn gh ysuh iMs+xhA dksb Hkh balku vkidks crk rks
ldrk gS] ysfdu lh[kk ugh ldrk] lh[kuk rks [kqn gh iM+rk gSA vkidks ;ksX; rks
[qkn gh cuuk iM+rk gSA rkfd vki lQyrk izkIr dj ldasA
lh[kus dh jkg es dbZ “krzq vkrs gSa buls cp
dj jgas%& vxj vki buls ugh cpksxs rks ;s vkidks vkids
y{; rd ugh igqapus nasxsaA bugs tkus o buls cpasA
bZxks dks
vkMs u vkus ns %&vxj vkidk bZxks lkeus vk,sxk] rks fQj vius
Kku o viuh ;ksX;rk fn[kkuk pkgsxkA blls vkids chPk es ekaufld ck/kk [kMh gks
tk,sxhA vkSj vki og ugh lh[k ikvksx]s tks vkids fy, lh[kuk t:jh gSA tks Hkh
lh[ks] mls thou es t:j mrkjsA D;ksfd “kkCnhd Kku vuqHko ds fcuk va/kk gksrk gSA
vkSj vuqHko ges thou es mrkjus ls gh feyrk gSA vkSj vuqHko ls gh ge leFkZ curs
gSA dbZ yksx lh[kh gqbZ ckr thou es mrkjus ls Mjrs gS fd dgh ;s
vuqfpr rks ugh gSA tc rd vki Mjrs jgksxs] rc rd vki dqN vuqHko ugh dj ldksxsA
leL;kvksa ls u ?kcjk,s]a ;s ges lh[kuk] fodkl djuk
o lq/kkj djuk lh[kkrha gSa %&gj dke lh[kus dh dksf”kl u djsA
gj dke lh[kus dh dksf”kl es vkidk og dk;Z NqV tk,sxk] ftUgs flQZ vki dj ldrs
gks A NksVs 2 dk;Z lh[kus dh ctk,sa vki ;s
lh[kks dh vki fdl ls djk ldrs gksA cqf) bZ”oj dk ojnku gSA ftlls ge gj leL;k
dks lqy>k ldrs gS] ge dksbZ u;k vfo’dkj dj ldrs gS] ge ftruh Hkh izxfr djrs
gS] lc viuh cqf) ls gh djrs gaSA lgh xyr dk fu.kZ; Hkh ge cqf) ls gh djrs gSA
ge lHkh dks bZ”oj us cqf) nh gS ysfdu ge bl dk mi;ksx vyx &2 rjhdks ls djrs
gSaA
viuh leLr
fpro`fr dks ,dkxz djdss mls lh[kus es yxk,sa %&fpr dks
,dkxz djds vius eu dks lqnaj cuk,s] lqnj eu es gh l`tu”khyrk
iSnk gksrh gSA tks Hkh egku dk;Z fd;s tkrs gS ;k gq,s gS os l`tu”khyrk ls gh laHko
gq, gSA fdlh Hkh {ksrz es leiurk dk lh/kk leca/k l`tu”khyrk ls gSA fdlh Hkh
pht dks lh[kus ds le; izca/ku dh vko”;drk gSA le; izca/ku ls vki dksbZ Hkh dk;Z
vklkuh ls lh[k ldrs gksA
tksf[ke mBkus ls uk Mjsa%&vxj vki
xyrh gksus ds Mj ls dksbZ u;k dke gkFk es ugh yksxs] rks ftanxh es dHkh Hkh
vkxs ugh c< ikvksxsA xyrh djuk xyr ckr ugh gS] muls dqN uk lh[kuk xyr gSA
vxj vki dqN u;k dke djuk pkgrs gks rks vkidks tksf[ke rks ysuk gh iM+sxkA lQyrk
dk igyk fu;e gS] tksf[ke o dqN u;k djuk blds fcuk lQyrk vlaHko gSaA blfy, u;s
tksf[ke mBk,as] tks mues xyrh gks mugs lq/kkjsA vkSj vkxs c<asA
Xkyfr;ksa
dks Lohdkj dj mUgas lq/kkjs %& nqfu;k es ,slk ,d Hkh O;fDr ugh
fey ldrk ftlls dHkh dksbZ xyrh ugh gqbZ gksA fdlh Hkh lQy balku ds ckjs es tkuksxs
rks irk pysxk fd “kq:vkr es buls Hkh xyrh;ka gqbZ gSA vkSj ;s viuh xyrh;ksa dks
lq/kkj dj gh vkxs c<sa gSA ;s ckr lp gS fd tc Hkh dksbZ
u;k dk;Z fd;k tkrk gS rks mles dqN xyrh;ka o dfe;ka gks tkrh gSaA xyrh dh otg
ls dksbZ dke gkFk es uk ysuk csdqQh gSA ;s tku yks dh dksbZ Hkh balku fdlh Hkh
dk;Z es ijQsDV ugh gks ldrk lh[kus dh o lq/kkjus dh xqtkbl ges”kk cuh jgrh gSA
egku
yksxks ls lh[kas %&Lokeh foosdkuan th dks dHkh fdlh us fujk”k
gksrs ugh ns[kkA os fujarj iz;kl es yxs jgrs Fk]s mUgksus vius xq: Lokeh jked`’.k
ijgal ls izsj.kk yh FkhA egku yksx viuk thou rks lHkkyrs gh gS] nqljks ds fy,
Hkh izsj.kk cu tkrs gSaA ge egku yksxks ls dqN izsj.kk ys lds blfy, jksM o
fo/kkY;ks ds uke egku yksxks ds uke ij j[krs gSA egku yksxks dks Qksyks djds gh]
ge la;e] R;kx o leZi.k lh[k ldrs gSA ge mudk utfj;k mudk dke djus dk rjhdk o
vkSj cgqr lh ckrs lh[k dj vius thou dks lekU; yksxks ls Åij mBk ldrs gSA Ekgku
yksx Hkh gekjh gh rjg lkekU; yksx gksrs gSA os vius dk;Z O;ogkj o vkpj.k ls
egku curs gSA vkSj vki Hkh fo”okl djks dh vki Hkh vius vkpj.k o O;ogkj ls egku
cu ldrs gks A