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             Lkh[kuk er NksfM;as  

ftaaaa+aanxh Hkj gj balku dqN u dqN  lh[krk jgrk gSA vxj balku gj xyrh] gj balku ls lh[k ysrk jgs]rks thou ds cgqr lkjs nq[k] nnZ] fujk”kk vkSj larki dks feVk ldrk gSA lh[krs jgus dk eryc gS] yxkrkj fodk”k djrs jguk A vxj vki FkksMk lk /;ku nks] rks nqljks ls cgqr dqN lh[k ldrs gksA  

               

lh[kuk D;ksa t:jh gS %& vKkurk fdlh Hkh {ksrz es gks og uqdlku nsg gh gksrh gSA blfy, ckjhfd;ksa dks le>us dk iz;kl djsaA ;s ges”kk /;ku j[kuk dh ;ksX;rk o izfrHkk ls thr o lEeku gkfly gksrh gSA lh[kuk  NksM+us ls vkidh ;ksX;rk Bgj tk,sxhA  tks pht ge ugh tkurs mls ge nqljks ls lh[k ldrs gSA blfy, vkt ls lh[kuk “kq: dj fnft,sA ge nqljks dk vuq“kj.k djds gh] ogk igaqp ldrs gS] tgk  nqljs igqaps gSA tc ge lh[krs gS] rks gekjh ;ksX;rk o {kerk nksuks gh c<+rh tkrh gSA   

Lkh[kus ds fy, ekabM+ vksiu j[kas] lkspsa o loky djsa %& ekabM vksiu j[kdj gh vki dqN lh[k ldrs gks] lh[kk ldrs gks A loky lkspus o djus ls gh gekjk ckSf)d fodkl gksxkA ykbQ es dqN djuk pkgrs gks] rks vki ftruk lksprs gks] mlls nqxuk djksA vf/kdrj yksxks  dh izkCye gh ;s gksrh gS fd lksprs T;knk gS] djrs de gSA tgka vki igaqpuk pkgrs gks ogka flQZ lksp dj ;k lh[kdj ugh igaqp ldrs] ogka ij vki csgrj rjhds ls djds gh igqap ldrs gksA   

        

lh[kus ds fy, le; invest djsa %& vxj vki ykbQ es dqN lh[kuk pkgrs gks] rks le; dk invesatment rks djuk gh iM+sxkA vkSj le; dk vHkko fdlh ds ikl Hkh ugh gSA flQZ self motivation dk vHkko jgrk gSA vxj balku [kqn motivated jgs] rks lh[kus ds vusd jkLrs [kkst ldrk gSA vkSj lh[kus ds fy, le; Hkh fudky ysxkA  lh[kus ds fy, [kqn dks eksVhosV djsa] lHkh }kj [kqy tk,saxsA le; vius vki feyus yxsxkA gj jkst dqN u;k lh[kus dh dksf”k”k djasA vxj vki csgrj djuk pkgrs gks] rks vkidks viuh ;ksX;rk c<kuh iMs+xhA     

             

                                                 ̕ ̕tks Hkh vki ftanxh es lh[kuk pkgrs gks] igys tks t:jh gS] mlls “kq: djsa] vkSj fQj tks eqefdu gS] mls djas] vkSj fQj vki ukeqefdu dke Hkh djus yxsx̕s ̕       

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vyx&2 fQYM+ ds yksxks ls fefy,sa %&vyx&2 fQYM ds yksxks ls feyks] muls loky djks] A v/ksjs dh f”kdk;r djus ls vPNk gS fd nhid tykvksA ftl pht dk vkidks irk ugh mldk irk yxkvksA gj fQYM ds yksxks ls vkidks dqN u dqN lh[kus ds fy, t:j feysxkA vkSj tc vki feyksxs o loky djksxs rHkh rks vkxs c<ksxsA tSls fd dgrs gaS f”k{kk gh lQyrk dh dqath gSA ftl rjg Ldqy dh lh[kh gqbZ ckrs egRoiq.kZ gSa] blh rjg O;ogkfjd Kku vkSj /ku lacf/kr tkudkjh Hkh t:jh gSaA vxj vkidks gj fQYM dh tkudkjh ugh gS] rks ekSds vk,sxs vkSj pys tk,sxs] vkidks irk gh ugh py ik,sxkA blfy, gj fQYM dh tkudkjh vkSj rRdky fu.kZ; ysus dh {kerk gksuh vfuokZ; gSA       

        

̕ ̕Kkuh o Js"B vkpj.k okys balku ls dqN Hkh iqNus es dHkh ladksp ugh djuk pkfg,̕ ̕

dbZ ckj yksx u tkurs gq, Hkh iqNus es ladksp djrs gSA tks pht vki ugh tkurs ;k ftl dk;Z ds ckjs es vki ugh tkurs mls iqNus esa ldksp dSlk \ fdlh dke dk uk vkuk xyr ugh gS] mls uk lh[kuk xyr gS A tks dke vkidks ugh vkrk mls NksVs cPps ls Hkh lh[kus es ladksp ugh djuk pkfg,A vkSj tks ckr vkidks cMks dh Hkh xyr yxs] mldh mis{kk djuh pkfg, gka ,d ckr dk /;ku j[ks] mis{kk djs vieku ugh A Tkc vkids vanj dqN lh[kus dh bPNk gksrh gS] rHkh vki dqN lh[k ldrs gksA fdlh Hkh dke dks vki ftruk lh[krs tkrs gS] mruh gh ckjhdh;kas dk vkidks irk pyrk tkrk gSA vkSj ftruk vki Kku gkfly djrs tkrs gaS] mruk gh vkidks vKkurk dk irk pyrk tkrk gSA    

̕ ̕ tks ge tkurs gS oks ,d cqn gS] tks ugh tkurs og ,d lkxj gS̕ ̕                                           &bZlkd U;wV      

vki ftruk T;knk lh[kksxs mruh gh vkidh ;ksX;rk c<+ tk,sxh %&tc vki fdlh Hkh pht dks cgqr vPNh rjg lh[k ysrs gaS] rks mls csgrj rjhds ls djrs gSaA vkSj vki ftruk T;knk vPNh rjg ls dke dks lh[k ysrs gS] mruh gh ml dk;Z es vki dks n{krk izkIr gks tkrh gS] mruh gh vkidh oSY;q c< tkrh gSA cgqr T;knk O;Lr jgus dh ctk,] vPNs ifj.kke dh dksf”k”k djasA thou  es Js’V djus dh lkspasA blls vki csgrj balku cu ldrs gaSA nqljs vkidks dqN Hkh dgas bldh izokg uk djasA vxj gka vkidh varjkRek gh vkidks dpksVs rks lksp yks dh vkids vPNs fnu vk x,s gS] vc vki viuk dherh le; uk xok,asA viuh detksfj;ksa dks igapkus o mUgsa nqj djsaA   

           

la”kDr balku mez Hkj ubZ ubZ ckrsa lh[kus es yxk jgrk gS %&  viuh {kerkvks dks lhfer u ekus A cfYd fofHkUu fo’k;ks dks le>us dh dksf”k”k djasA D;k dksbZ vkSj rjhdk gS] bls lHkkyus dk \ tc dksbZ rjhdk fey tk,s] rks ml ij vey djsaA ftruk vH;kl djksxs mrus gh u;s rjhds vkdj vkidks mHkkjsxsA vki ,d ckj vius fopkjks dks Li’V djys]A rks vkxs Hkh vius fopkjks dk o vius vuqHko dk bLrseky dj ldrs gksA

lQy yksxks dks /;ku ls ns[ksa] muds ckjs es i<+dj lh[kdj thou es mrkjsa %& cksyuk] i<uk] lquuk ;s lh[kuk ugh gSA ;s lc lh[kus ds jkLrs gaSA lh[kuk rks flQZ og gS tks vkius thou es mrkjk gSA tc rd vki lh[k dj i<dj thou es ugh mrkjr]s rc rd dksbZ Qk;nk ugh gSA lh[kks tks lQy yksxks us lh[kk] mls thou es mrkjks ftlls oks lQy gks ldsA fdlh Hkh dk;Z es lQyrk izkIr djus ds fy, ;s t:jh gS fd vki fdruk lh[k ldrs gks] ;k viuh dk;Z {kerk fdruh c<k ldrs gksA vkSj ;s lc vkidh lksp ij fuHkZj gS] vxj lksprs gks fd vki lh[k ldrs gks rks lh[k yksxs] vkSj vxj vki lksprs gks fd vki ugh lh[k ldrs rks vki ugh lh[k ikvksxsA

vki vius vkbZMy ls dqN Hkh lh[ks ijarq mudks Qksyks u djsa %& tc rd vki fdlh dks jksy ekWMy ugh cukrs] rc rd vki mlls dqN lh[k Hkh ugh ldrsA ysfdu vkidh fcyikoj bruh LV`ksx gksuh pkfg,] fd vki muls vkxs fudy ldksA muls T;knk lDlsl Qqy gks ldks] gj ifjfLFkfr ls vki [kqn gh lh[k ldrs gks] vkSj dksbZ vkidks dqN ugh lh[kk ldrkA vki vius vuqHko ls lQyrk izkIr dj ldrs gksA tc rd vki lh[krs jgus ds fy, rS;kj ugh rc rd vki ÅWph lQyrk gkfly ugh dj ldrsA ;s t:jh ugh gS fd vki tc dksbZ dke “kq: djrs gks] rks vkids ikl es ml dke dh fdruh tkudkjh gS \ ;s t:jh gS fd vki fdruk lh[krs gks fdruk cnyrs gks A

Lo;a dk v/;u djsa] rHkh vkxs c< ldrs gkas %& vkidh fdLer es dqN Hkh fy[kk gks] mlls mHkjus ds fy, vkidks vius varZeu es >kduk iMs+xkA rHkh vki mlls mHkj ldrs gksA vxj vki dqN djuk pkgrs gks] vkSj vkies mldh ;ksX;rk ugh gSA rks vki ;ksX;rk gkfly djksxs vkSj vxj vki ;s ugh dj jgs gks] rks vkids vanj bPNk “kfDr dh deh gSA vxj vkids vanj fdlh ;ksX;rk dh deh gS] rks vki mu fo’k;ks ij nqxuk ;k rhu xq.kk oDr nsdj lh[ksaA vki dksbZ vkSj jkLrk <qM+ ldrs gksA vki ftruk iz;kl djksx]s blls vkids fnekx dh rks dljr gksxh gh vkSj vPNk dks”ky vk,sxkA gj lh[k ftanxh es dHkh u dHkh dke vkrh gSA vius vanj >kadks viuh [qkch igapkuks vkSj viuh ;ksX;rk dks ekiks vkSj fQj BaMs fnekx ls lksp dj vius vkidks cnyks vkSj lh[kks A             

        

Lknk ,d dne vkxs dh lksps %&vxj vki ekurs gks fd vkidk /kjrh ij vkuk] ,d eqdke gkfly djuk gSA rks vkidh leL;kvksa vkSj ck/kkvkas dks u;s ek;us feysxsA vkSj vkids vuqHko vkids varZeu dks iks’k.k iznku djsxsaA ;ksX;rk ds cht rks vkids tUe ls gh vkids lkFk bl nqfu;k es vkrs gSA bUgs fodflr djas vkSj lQy balku cus A vki viuh fodflr djus dh {kerk ij gh viuk HkkX; cny ldrs gksA ikWftVo lksp ls gh vki ;s lh[k ikvksxs] fd vkidh ftanxh es pkgs dqN Hkh gks jgk gks vki ldkjkRed jgssxasA vkSj fLFkfr dks viuh lqfo/kk iwoZd <ky ik,sxsaA vkSj leL;k ;k ijs”kkuh tSlh dksbZ pht ugh gSA vly es vki thou ds mrkj Pk<ko ls gh xqtj dj dqN lh[k ikrs gksA gj dfBu fLFkfr dk lkeuk djds  balku dqN lcd t:j lh[krk gSA vxj vki volj dk ykHk mBkrs gk]s rks vki le>nkj balku gksA vxj vki dqN lh[kuk pkgrs gks] rks mldh ftEesnkjh [kqn gh ysuh iMs+xhA dksb Hkh balku vkidks crk rks ldrk gS] ysfdu lh[kk ugh ldrk] lh[kuk rks [kqn gh iM+rk gSA vkidks ;ksX; rks [qkn gh cuuk iM+rk gSA rkfd vki lQyrk izkIr dj ldasA

lh[kus dh jkg es dbZ “krzq vkrs gSa buls cp dj jgas%& vxj vki buls ugh cpksxs rks ;s vkidks vkids y{; rd ugh igqapus nasxsaA bugs tkus o buls cpasA 

                                    

bZxks dks vkMs u vkus ns %&vxj vkidk bZxks lkeus vk,sxk] rks fQj vius Kku o viuh ;ksX;rk fn[kkuk pkgsxkA blls vkids chPk es ekaufld ck/kk [kMh gks tk,sxhA vkSj vki og ugh lh[k ikvksx]s tks vkids fy, lh[kuk t:jh gSA tks Hkh lh[ks] mls thou es t:j mrkjsA D;ksfd “kkCnhd Kku vuqHko ds fcuk va/kk gksrk gSA vkSj vuqHko ges thou es mrkjus ls gh feyrk gSA vkSj vuqHko ls gh ge leFkZ curs gSA dbZ yksx lh[kh gqbZ ckr thou es mrkjus ls Mjrs gS fd dgh ;s vuqfpr rks ugh gSA tc rd vki Mjrs jgksxs] rc rd vki dqN vuqHko ugh dj ldksxsA  

leL;kvksa ls u ?kcjk,s]a ;s ges lh[kuk] fodkl djuk o lq/kkj djuk lh[kkrha gSa %&gj dke lh[kus dh dksf”kl u djsA gj dke lh[kus dh dksf”kl es vkidk og dk;Z NqV tk,sxk] ftUgs flQZ vki dj ldrs gks A NksVs 2 dk;Z lh[kus dh ctk,sa  vki ;s lh[kks dh vki fdl ls djk ldrs gksA cqf) bZ”oj dk ojnku gSA ftlls ge gj leL;k dks lqy>k ldrs gS] ge dksbZ u;k vfo’dkj dj ldrs gS] ge ftruh Hkh izxfr djrs gS] lc viuh cqf) ls gh djrs gaSA lgh xyr dk fu.kZ; Hkh ge cqf) ls gh djrs gSA ge lHkh dks bZ”oj us cqf) nh gS ysfdu ge bl dk mi;ksx vyx &2 rjhdks ls djrs gSaA

viuh leLr fpro`fr dks ,dkxz djdss mls lh[kus es yxk,sa %&fpr dks ,dkxz djds vius eu dks lqnaj cuk,s] lqnj eu es gh l`tu”khyrk iSnk gksrh gSA tks Hkh egku dk;Z fd;s tkrs gS ;k gq,s gS os l`tu”khyrk ls gh laHko gq, gSA fdlh Hkh {ksrz es leiurk dk lh/kk leca/k l`tu”khyrk ls gSA fdlh Hkh pht dks lh[kus ds le; izca/ku dh vko”;drk gSA le; izca/ku ls vki dksbZ Hkh dk;Z vklkuh ls lh[k ldrs gksA

tksf[ke mBkus ls uk Mjsa%&vxj vki xyrh gksus ds Mj ls dksbZ u;k dke gkFk es ugh yksxs] rks ftanxh es dHkh Hkh vkxs ugh c< ikvksxsA xyrh djuk xyr ckr ugh gS] muls dqN uk lh[kuk xyr gSA vxj vki dqN u;k dke djuk pkgrs gks rks vkidks tksf[ke rks ysuk gh iM+sxkA lQyrk dk igyk fu;e gS] tksf[ke o dqN u;k djuk blds fcuk lQyrk vlaHko gSaA blfy, u;s tksf[ke mBk,as] tks mues xyrh gks mugs lq/kkjsA vkSj vkxs c<asA    

        

Xkyfr;ksa dks Lohdkj dj mUgas lq/kkjs %& nqfu;k es ,slk ,d Hkh O;fDr ugh fey ldrk ftlls dHkh dksbZ xyrh ugh gqbZ gksA fdlh Hkh lQy balku ds ckjs es tkuksxs rks irk pysxk fd “kq:vkr es buls Hkh xyrh;ka gqbZ gSA vkSj ;s viuh xyrh;ksa dks lq/kkj dj gh vkxs c<sa gSA ;s ckr lp gS fd tc Hkh dksbZ u;k dk;Z fd;k tkrk gS rks mles dqN xyrh;ka o dfe;ka gks tkrh gSaA xyrh dh otg ls dksbZ dke gkFk es uk ysuk csdqQh gSA ;s tku yks dh dksbZ Hkh balku fdlh Hkh dk;Z es ijQsDV ugh gks ldrk lh[kus dh o lq/kkjus dh xqtkbl ges”kk cuh jgrh gSA

egku yksxks ls lh[kas %&Lokeh foosdkuan th dks dHkh fdlh us fujk”k gksrs ugh ns[kkA os fujarj iz;kl es yxs jgrs Fk]s mUgksus vius xq: Lokeh jked`’.k ijgal ls izsj.kk yh FkhA egku yksx viuk thou rks lHkkyrs gh gS] nqljks ds fy, Hkh izsj.kk cu tkrs gSaA ge egku yksxks ls dqN izsj.kk ys lds blfy, jksM o fo/kkY;ks ds uke egku yksxks ds uke ij j[krs gSA egku yksxks dks Qksyks djds gh] ge la;e] R;kx o leZi.k lh[k ldrs gSA ge mudk utfj;k mudk dke djus dk rjhdk o vkSj cgqr lh ckrs lh[k dj vius thou dks lekU; yksxks ls Åij mBk ldrs gSA Ekgku yksx Hkh gekjh gh rjg lkekU; yksx gksrs gSA os vius dk;Z O;ogkj o vkpj.k ls egku curs gSA vkSj vki Hkh fo”okl djks dh vki Hkh vius vkpj.k o O;ogkj ls egku cu ldrs gks A