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            fpark ls dSls cpsa

fpark ,d rjg dh ekufld fcekjh gSA bldk vlj fny vkSj fnekx ij iMrk gSA ftl dh otg ls cYM izs’kj vkSj Mk;fcVht tSlh  chekjh iSnk gksrh gaSA fpark ls gekjk ’kjhj chekj gksrk gSA fpark ls gekjh fQftdy vkSj esaVy fMosyieasV es :dkoV vkrh gSA balku iqjs fnu dke djds Hkh bruk ugh Fkdrk ftruk fd ruko ls Fkdrk gSAbl Hkkx nkSM+ Hkjs thou es gj iy ruko gh ruko gSA vkt balku ds ikl es gj lq[k gS ysfdu ’kkafr ugh gSA ftlds ns[kks psgjs yVds gq, gS ?kj ]vkfQl ]lMd tgka ns[kks ogka gj balku ruko es feysxkA ruko gekjh ’kkafr dks [kk tkrk gSA ges lkekftd v?;kfRed ikfjokfjd o ekufld rkSj ij detksj dj nsrk gSA ;qok oxZ rsth ls ruko o fMizs’ku dh fxjQr es vkrk tk jgk gS A  MkW +vpy Hkxr ds vuqlkj fMizs’ku dks le>us ds fy, ges bl jksx ds cqfu;knh Lo:Ik dks tkuuk t:jh gSA tSls dqN le; ds fy, gksus okyh rukoiw.kZ fLFkfr dks fMizzs’ku ugh dgk tk ldrk A fo’ks"k foijhr ifjfLFkr;kas es lHkh dks nq[k ;k ruko eglql gksrk gSaA ysfdu fMizs’ku ,slk euksjksx gS ]ftles O;fDr yxkrkj dkQh le; rd vR;f/kd mnklh vkSj udkjkred fopkjks ls f?kjk jgrk gSA bl jksx ds dbZ dkj.k gSA eq[; dkj.k gS foijhr ifjfLFkfr;kas ds lkFk rkyesy LFkkfir djus es yxkrkj vlQy gksuk A vpy Hkxr ds vuqlkj bl dk dkj.k ;s Hkh gS fd ;qodks dks vius dWfj;j es LFkkfir gksus ds fy, dMh izfrLi/kkZ dk lkeuk djuk iM jgk gSAblds vykok og de oDr es lQyrk dh lh<h;ka rsth ls p<uk pkgrs gSA mues ?kS;Z ugh gksrk vkSj tc os vius r; fd;s y{; dks iqjk ugh dj ikrs ]rc muds fny es dqBak ?kj dj tkrh gS A vkSj ;s gh  mudh Vsa’ku dk dkj.k cu tkrh gSaA    

fpark Lks cpus ds mik;

tc Hkh vkids eu es fpark dk Hkko vk, rks vki lksfp, dh ijekRek vkids lkFk gS oks vkids lkFk flQZ vPNk djsxk ]tks Hkh gksxk vPNk gksxk vPNs ds fy, gksxk A ijekRek ds ;gk vU;k; ugh gSA ijEkkRek ds ;gk lq[k ]’kkfUr vkSj vkUun gSA vkSj vkt rd vkids lkFk tks Hkh gqvk gS mlh es vki dh HkykbZ FkhA ;s lr izfr’kr lp gS lksp dj ns[kks \tc vki lkspksxs rks ns[kksxs dh fpark dh rks dksbZ ckr gh ugh gSA tc vki fpark djrs gks rks dqN u dqN viuk uqdlku t:j djrs gks dgkor gS fd fprk eqnkZ dks tykrh gS ]vkSj fpark ftanks dks tykrh gSA  mnklh] nq[k] fpark vkfn ls mHkjus ds fy, ,d gh mik; gSA vkSj og gS lQyrk dh vk’kk djs ]ldkjkRed lksp j[ks ]cMs lius ns[sk]tks Hkh leL;k vk;s mldk /kS;Z ls lkeuk djsA ftu yksxks us Hkh dke;kch ikbZ gS mu yksxks us eu dk nkl cu dj ugh eu dks nkl cukdj ikbZ gSA dqN yksxks dks ns[kk gksxk dh FkksMh lh Vas’ku gksrs gh ?kcjk tkrs gaS vkSj dqN yksxks ij Vs’ku dk vlj gh utj ugh vkrh ,d dgkor gS & 

og iFk D;k ]ifFkd dq’kyrk D;k] tc iFk ij fc[kjs lqy uk gks] ukfod dh /kS;Z ijh{kk D;k] tc /kkjk izfrdqy uk gksA  

̕ ̕;fn vki ds izfr)nh vkids y{; ij u gals]rks lef>,] fd vHkh vki ds y{; NksVs gS̕ ̕      
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vki gj pqukSfr dks ,d volj ds :ies cny ldrs gks AD;ksfd foijhr ifjfLFkfr;kas es vius fnekx dks la;r j[kuk vkSj ldkjkRed jguk lcds cl dh ckr ugh gSA ;fn ;s {kerk vkids vUnj gS rks csgrj gksxk dh vki bls cgkj fudkysA fdlh Hkh fQYM es dke;kc gksus ds fy, cMs &2 lius ns[kks brus cMs lius ns[kks dh vki dh ftanxh cny tk,sA ges’kk T;knk dk bjknk djks A mugs iqjk djus dk bjknk bruk etcqr gks dh lc vklku gks tk,A fopkjks dk fl}kUr cMk izHkko Mkyrk gS] [kq’k jgus okyk balku lq[kks es o`f} djrk gSA vkSj nq[kh jgus okyk balku nq[kks vkSj fparkvks dh o`f} djrk gSA lq[kh jguk pkgrs gks rks nq[kh djus okys fopkjks dks eu ls fudky Qsdks A gekjk ,d nq[kh fopkj nq[kh djrk gSA o ,d lnfopkj lq[kh djrk gSA eu opu deZ ls [kq’k jgus dh dksf’k’k djks izlUufpr jgdj gh vki fpark ls cp ldrs gksA 

 ftnxh cny tk,sxh [kqn gh esjs nksLr eqLdjkuk lh[k ys ]otg dh ryk’k er dj̕ ̕

gekjs thou dhs dfBu ifjfLFkfr;ks es laca/k dSls gS \ gekjh muds izfr fopkj /kjk D;k gS \ gekjs ifjokj okyks ds lkFk] ferzks ds lkFk O;ogkj dSlk gS \ gekjk n`f"dks.k D;k gS \ ;s gekjh lksp ij fuHkZj gSA tc ge viuh dafe;k ns[kuk ’kq: dj nsrs gSa rc nqljks dks nks"kh Bgjkuk NksM nsrs gSaA tks balku tSlk gksrk gS og oSls gh vkxs c<uk pkgrk gS vkSj nqfu;k ds yksx mls vius tSlk cukus dh dksf’k’k djrs gS /kedh ls izHkkfor djrs gSA D;ksfd ;s yksx viuh fiNyh ftanxh ls fudyuk gh ugh pkgrs dqN djuk gh ugh pkgrsA vkSj dksbZ balku tc viuh csgrj dYiuk dks iqjk djuk pkgrk gS] rks og balku vius lkgl o dMh esgur ls Js"Vre ik ysrk gSA rc ckdh ds yksx mls Lohdkj djus o c<kok nsus dh ctk, mldh fuank djds mls uhps fxjkus dh dksf’k’k djrs gSA ,slh LfFkfr es dqN yksx fujk’k gksdj vkxs c<uk NksM+ nsrs A vkSj ruko xzLr jgrs gS A ysfdu dke;kc rks oks gh yksx gksrs gS tks bu ckrks ij /;ku uk nsdj vkxs c<rs tkrs gaSA

de ofdZx vkoj djsa %& tks yksx vius fy, le; de fudky ikrs gSA muds LokLFk o vPNk balku cus jgus dh jkg es :dkoV vkrh gSA ,sls yksx ikfjokfjd]lkekftd] o nksLrh dk nkf;Ro dks bZekunkjh ls ugh fuHkk ikrsA vxj vki dke djus okyks dh fcekjh;ksa dks ns[kksxs rks mldh otg Hkh dke dkt dh leL;k gh T;knk feysxh AlkFk gh dke dk nokc o fMizas’ku Hkh bUgh yksxks es T;knk utj vk,sxk A vkt gj balku T;knk fcth gSA ysfdu ge ;g Hkqy tkrs gS fd ,d fnu ges bl dh dher cgqr T;knk pqdkuh iM+ ldrh gSA 

,d fjlpZ es crk;k x;k gS fd vxj vki gj gQrs dqN de ?kaVs dke djsxs rks vki T;knk LoLFk jg ldksxsA vFkZ’kkfLrz;ks ds ,d lewg dh lykg gS fd lIrkg es dke djus ds ?kaVks es deh dh tkuh pkfg,A bls 40 ?kaVs ls de djds 30 ?kaVs+as izfr lIrkg dj nsuh pkfg,A blls dke fcydqy Hkh izHkkfor ugh gksxkA nqfu;k es  cgqr ls  vFkZ’kkfLrz;ks dk dguk gS fd dke ds ?k+aVks es deh ykdj dke dkth yksxks dh chekjh Hkh de dh tk ldrh gSA

fujk’kk uk gks] fujk’kk esa gh vk’kk fNih  gS %&   gj balku lDlsl pkgrk gS]A ysfdu lDlsl ds fy, vlQyrk dks [kq’kh&2 LohdkjsA ftnaxh es mrkj p<ko rks vkrs gh jgrs gSA ,slh flpq,a’ku es ges vius Åij daV`ksy djuk vkuk pkfg,A dbZ ckj vlQy gksus ij cgqr vf/kd fujk’k gks tkrs gSA ,slh fLFfr es ges vPNs le; dk bartkj djuk pkfg, o vPNs le; ds ckjs lkspuk pkfg, A ge D;k LVS`~Vsth Qksyks  djds lDlsl gaq, Fks A ;s /;ku es j[k dj nksckjk Iyku cukdj dke djuk pkfg,A

    

Iyku ;ksj ,ase %&dbZ ckj ge fcuk Iyku fd;s dke djrs jgrs gSA ftldh otg ls ge vlQy gks tkrs gSAdbZ ckj ge ;s Iyku ugh dj ikrs dh gekjs vanj D;k DokfyVh gS]vkSj ge viuh DokyVh dks dSls bLrs eky djs A tc rd vkids thou es ,se ugh gksxk rc rd vki fdlh eafty ij ugh igq¡p ikvksxsA vkSj tc vki ,se cuk yksxs rks eafty ij igaqpuk vklku gks tk,sxkA

LV`sl  lc ds thou es gksrh gS fQj ?kcjkuk D;w \%&tc ge vksoj cMZu gks tkrs gS vkSj izs’kj dks >sy ugh ikrs A bl ls gekjk vPNk [kklk fnu cckZn gks tkrk gSA T;knk fpark gekjh lkspus le>us dh {kerk dks [kRe dj nsrh gSA blls fjyhQ ikus ds dbZ rjhds gS ysfdu esfMlu uk ys A    

ftu ckrks ls LV`sl gksrk gS mu ckrks dks bxukasj djks %&ges dqN [kkl ckrks ls gh ;k [kkl phtks ls LVa`sl gksrk gSA mu ckrks ls cpus dh dksf’k’k djs A vxj ;s ikWflcy ugh gS rks ,slh LfFkr es [kqn dks vdsyk uk j[ks A vdsys es balku T;knk Vas’ku es jgrk gSA blfy, ges’kk vius nksLrks ;k QsSfeyh esaclZ ds lkFk ’ks;j djsa bl ls dbZ ckj gekjh cMh ls cMh izkCyEl dk lY;qlu fey tkrk gSA vxj vki fdlh dh ckrks ls LV`sl Qhy djrs gks rks ,sls yksxks ls fjys’kuf’ki [kRe djus es gh HkykbZ gSA vxj ;s ikWflcy ugh gS rks ,sls es nqjh rks cukbZ gh tk ldrh gSA    

fny ij er yks QkWyks ;ksj gkWch %&tks yksx ckrks dks fny ij ys ysr gS mUgh yksxks dks LV`sl izkCye T;knk gksrh gSA os NksVh &2ckrks dks Hkh ugh Hkqy ikrs A ,sls yksx ykbQ es vk, FkksMs ls MkmuQkWy dks Hkh lgu ugh dj ikrs A vkSj Vas’ku es vk tkrs gSA ,sls es ges lDlsl Qqy yksxks dh thouh i<uh pkfg,A mu yksxks dh thouh i<us ls irk pysxk dh muds thou es ,d ckj ugh vusdks ckj MkmuQkWy vk, ysfdu mUgksus bl flpq,’ku dk lkeuk fd;k AvkSj mlls mHkj dj lDlsl gkfly dh A T;knkrj yksx ykbQ es [kkyh iu eglql djus dh otg ls LV`sl eglql djrs gSA tc Hkh vkidks ,slk yxs rks vki vius dks fcth j[ksA tc Hkh vki [kkyh cSBs gks rks ml le; viuh gkWch dks izeksV djuk ’kq:‘dj nsaA blls vkidh LV`sLk Rkks de gksxh gh ]LkkFk Eks gkWch Ikj vkidh dekaM vkSj etcqr gksxhaaA tc Hkh vki u;k dk;Z ’kq: djrs gS rks gj pSysat dks galras gq, Lohdkj djs A bles tks Hkh ijs’kkuh vk, mls vius lhfu;lZ ds lkFk ;k DyhXl ds lkFk ’ks;j djsA blls vkidh izkCye dhs ’kq:vkr es ghs irk py tkrh gSA ftldh otg ls vki LV`sl es FksA vxj vki blls cpuk pkgrs gks rks 'kq: es gh LV`sth cuk, vkSj Vkbe ykbu fMlkbM dj ysA vkSj iqjh rS;kjh ls dk;Z djs blls dksbZ feLVsd ugh  gksxh A

fpaaru djuk lh[ks%& ges fpark NksM+ fparu djus dh t:jr gSA ysfdu cgqr ls O;fDr;ks dks fparu djuk ugh vkrk A ,sls es fparu djuk lh[kuk pkfg, Agekjs vanj izR;sd {k.k fparu pyrk jgrk gSA ysfdu ges ns[kuk pkfg, fd fparu iksftVo py jgk gS ;k usxSfVoA ikstsfVo fparu gekjh fpark dks nqj djrk gS vkSj usxSfVo gekjh fpark dks c<krk gSA usxSfVo fparu ges vlQy cukrk gS vkSj ikstsfVo fparu ges lQyrk dh rjQ vxzlj djrk gSA ges ikstsfVo fparu dh vknr Mkyuh pkfg,A grk’kk &fujk’kk dh fLFkfr es ikstsfVo fparu ls ykHk feyrk gS] vkSj gekjs thou es fo’okl o mRlkg c<krk gSA fopkjks es ifjoZru vkrk gS eu ’kkar gksrk gSA usxSfVo fparu nqj gksrk gSA fparu dks lQy cukus ds fy, ,dkar es /;ku djs vius vanj viuh dfea;ks dks [kksts o mugs nqj djus dh dksf’k’k djsA

{kek djks] {kek ls thou dk dksbZ Hkh la?k"kZ thrk tk ldrk  gS %&{kek detksj balku ekxrs gS ;k djrs gS ;g axyr /kkj.kk gS A {kek ohjks dk vkHkq"k.k gSA {kek ,d csgrj balku gh dj ldrk gSA njvly {kek ge [kqn ds fy, djrs gSA D;ksfd {kek balku dks ’kfDr’kkyh vkSj csgrj cukrh gSA pkgs lkeus okyk viuh xyrh ekus ;k uk ekus viuh xyrh dk vglkl gks ;k uk gks A {kek ds fy, ges cgqr lh ckrks ij /;ku nsuk gksxk aA {kEkk djuk ;k ekaxuk vklku ugh gS blds fy, fo’kky gzn; ]lgu’khyrk ]/kS;Z] vkSj lgkl dh cgqr T;knk t:jr gksrh gSA tc balku fdlh dh ig¡qpkbZ gqbZ Bsl dks fny ls ugh fudky ikrk gS] rks og balku nqljks ls vf/kd [kqn dks nq[k igaqpkrk gSA blfy,  csgrj gS fd ge {kek ekaxus ;k {kek djus es nsjh uk djasA     

ifjfLFkfr;ka izfrdqy gS rks nqljks es cnyko ykus dh ctk,s vius es cnyko ykus dh dksf’k’k djks %&;s vPNh rjg ls le> ys dh dksbzZ Hkh balku iaq.kZ ugh gsSA gj balku es dksbZ uk dksbZ deh gksrh gS A blfy, tks Hkh cnyko pgkrs gks mUgs vius vUnj djus dk iz;kl djks rHkh vki gj leL;k dk lek/kku dj ldrs gks vkSj gj Vsa’ku ls cp ldrs gksA  

     ̕ ̕ cMs cnykoks dh 'kq#vkr futh iz;klks ls gksrh gS̕ ̕                                                 &nykbZ ykek

IkzfrLi/kkZ ls cps] izfrLi/kkZ ls l?kZ"k c<rk gS vkSj l?kZ"k ls vlarks"k] vr`fIr o nq[k c<rk gS %& gj balku lq[k pgkrk gS] ’kkafr  pgkrk gSA lq[k rks balku /ku ls ]vf/kdkj ls o in ls ik ldrk gsSsA ysfdu ’kkafar ds fy, lalk/kuks dh t:jr ugh gSA ruko ls eqfDr dk ,d gh mik; gS fd izfrLi/kkZ dks NksM dj vis{kkvks vkSj egRokdka{kkvksa dks lhfer dj ysA igys vkidks bZ’;k NksM nsuh pkfg,s] blls vk/kh ’kkafr rks vkidks raqjr gh fey tk,sxh jgh ckdh dh rks vki eqf’cr es Hkh eqLdjkrs jgks vkSj vius dke dks djrs jgks tks vkius pkag gS og vkidks ,d fnu t:j fey tk,sxkA”      vkerkSj ij gj balku ds gzn; es izfrLi/kkZ gksrh gSA gj balku nqljks ls vPNk fn[kuk pkgrk gS] dgykuk pgkrk gS] ?kj pgkrk gS xkMh pkgrk gSA vkSj gj lq[k lqfo/kk pgkrk gSA blfy, gj balku ls mls f’kdk;r jgrh gSA

 ’kkafr dh [kkst HkhM ls ugh ],dkar ls gksrh gS] fopkj ls ugh] fufoZpkj ls gksrh gSA                              
                     &jfoaunjukFk VSxksj        

tks O;fDr ckgj ls Lo;a dks Hkjus dh dksf’k’k djrk gS] og v’kkar gSA                                &Hkxoku egkohj

pSysat ftruk cM+k gksxk]lDlsl ds pkalst Hkh mrus gh T;knk gksxs] fQj Vsa’ku D;q \ faatanxh ges gj dne ij dqN uk dqN fl[kkrh gSA ;s ge ij fuHkZj gS fd ge ftnxh ls D;k lh[krs gSA vkSj ftnaxh”es D;k mrkjrs gS \ mrkj & p<ko rks lHkh dh ftanxh es vkrk gSA dqN yksx foijhr”ifjfLFfr;ksa es VqV dj fc[kj tkrs gSa]rks dqN yksx usxSfVo flpq,’ku es lDlsl dk jkLrk [kkst ysrs gSA ftanxh es use o Qse pkgrs gks rks viuh fLdy dks etcqr djks A ftuds ikl fLdy gS vkSj bls baiwzo djuk tkurs gS os vkxs c<rs jgrs gSA ;s ;kn j[kuk dh lq/kkj dh xqatkb’k gj dke es ges’kk cuh jgrh gSSA vkids ikl es ftruh T;knk fLdy gksxh mruh T;knk xzksFk dj ldksxs A dqN yksx FkksMh lh lQyrk feyrs gh ykijogk gks tkrs gSA vxj ge lDlsl feyus ds ckn viuh fLdy ij /;ku ns rks rks viuh fQYM es ijQsDV cu ldrs gSA gekjs lkeus dbZ rjg dh ijs’kkuh;ka ;k pSyst vkrs gS] ftuls ges Mjuk ugh pkfg,A D;ksfd bu phtks ls gh rks ge etcqr curs gSA dbZ ckj vlQy gksus ij ge Vsa’ku es vk tkrs gSA vksSj dbZ ckj rks fMizs’ku es Hkh pys tkrs gS],slh LfFfr es ges ,sls yksxks ds ckjs es tkuk pkfg, ]i<uk pkfg, ftu yksxks us gkj dj Hkh thr ds >aMs ygjk,s gSA ,slk djus ls gekjk vkRefo’okl c<sxk vkSj ges nksckjk ls dqN djus ds fy, izsj.kk feysxh A [kqn ij Hkjkslk djds]esgur djs lQyrk T;knk fnu rd vki ls nqj ugh jg ldsxhA  

vrhr dks idM dj uk cSBs orZeku es ft,%& ge NksVh lh yMkbZ >xMs dks Hkh ugh Hkqy ikrs vkSj ge cny ysus dh lksprs jgrs   gSA;s gekjs vfHkeku dh otg ls gksrh gSA nq[k rks bl ckr dk gS fd gees ls T;knkrj yksx bl izdkj dk thou th jgs gSA gekjs eu efLr"d ls foijhr ifjLFkfr;ka dksbZ ?kVuk dHkh [kRe gh ugh gksrhA gekjs vanj ^eS* vkSj ^esjh* dk nq) pyrk gh  jgrk gSA ge csotg vkSj csrqdh dh ckrks dks vius vanj lafpr djrs jgrs gSA vkSj vrhr dk fdruk Hkkjh cks> vius fnekx ij fy, fQjrs gSA tc ge vrhr dh ckrks dks da/ks ij fy,s fQjrs gS] rks gekjk O;fDro izHkkfor gq,s fcuk ugh jg ikrkA